Remember the part in Alice in Wonderland by Lewis Carroll where Alice came to a fork in the road and saw a Cheshire cat in a tree.
“Which road do I take?” she asked.
“Where do you want to go?” was his response.
“I don't know,” Alice answered.
“Then,” said the cat, “it doesn't matter.”
The lesson: you need to know what you want out of life… and you have to be clear about it. Otherwise, life will continue to just happen to you - with no regard for what you actually want from it.
There's power in specificity!
That's why it's so important that when you set goals or intentions for your life, you get super specific.
Here's a simple, yet powerful exercise you can do right now to set some clear intentions:
Write down your goals and dreams with as much detail as possible.
Instead of saying “I want to be in a relationship”, write down the qualities you want in both your relationship and your partner. When you do that, “I want to be in a relationship may transform into “I want to be in a happy, healthy, stable, passionate relationship with someone who makes me laugh, accept me as I am, and actively supports me as I pursue my goals”.
Give the universe specifics so that there's no confusion about what you're manifesting into your life. Make sure you don't leave out those secret dreams that are so big and scary that you've kept them to yourself. It's time to bring them to light and declare out loud that you're ready for MORE! Once the universe knows what you want and that you're ready to receive, it will gladly give it to you.
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